The Worship Pastor at my church recently returned from a three month sabbatical. I had the opportunity, along with a couple other guys, to lead a little more frequently in his absence. While getting somewhat back into the groove of leading regularly was a blast, as I reflect on various services I led I was reminded of the danger of the exceptional service. Why? I was given the opportunity to lead roughly once a month, so I would spend the time between services meditating, praying, scheming and mapping out the service coming up next. That’s a lot of prep for a single service. And God really did bless those services (in spite of all my hard work, I might add). It got me thinking, “Wow. I really am a great worship leader – I had almost forgotten. Man I can’t wait to get in a church where I can do this every week!” My first thought was that I would be able to bless whatever congregation God led me to with the most incredible worship services every week. Then God poked my brain with a 2×4 and reminded what a ludicrous thought that was.
What’s wrong with having an exceptional worship service? Nothing, really. Excepting, of course, the ever lurking danger of pride. First, though, let me explain what I mean by ‘exceptional worship service’: a service where everything goes right. Not perfect – just right. It’s not that the musicians don’t make mistakes (or even yourself), but that the mistakes that are made are either overlooked or don’t affect the service. You, as the leader, are tuned into the Spirit and everything just flows – everything you planned and pulled together comes together, not because of your effort but because of the blessing of the Lord.
This is a good thing – this is what you strive for every week. Right? Maybe. Maybe not. When the exceptional becomes the norm, then regular becomes sub-par. So do you only attempt “awesome” services infrequently, or at least spaced out? Wouldn’t it be awesome for your church to be that church that has the most awesome services ever! Every week!
But that’s a lot of pressure. You have to deliver every single week. There’s no let up, no time off. Oh, wait – you can draft a lay leader in every now and then so they get a little experience (and maybe remind the congregation why you’re the best worship leader ever!). Then when you can come back you can do an even awesomer service (yes, by the way, awesomer is a completely valid word, please ignore your spell checker).
Any experienced worship pastor/leader knows that the last seven sentences are ludicrous. Not every service can be a high point, a climactic event in the life of the church. “Why not?” you ask. As unrealistic as the expectation is, the reality would be even more dangerous and unhealthy to your congregation. It’s the greatest danger in the pentecostal and charismatic circles where there is an almost euphoric spiritual ‘high’ sought by many in every service they participate in, and services are often (consciously or unconsciously) graded on how incredibly the Spirit moved within them.
Every denomination, church, even congregant has their own way of grading services though, whether they find them to be exceptional or not. Baptists are as guilty as Methodists or Presbyterians or even those in any of the numerous charismatic/pentecostal alliances or denominations. As worship leaders, we are as guilty as those we lead, though we often grade the services using different standards.
But what should we strive for? Should we seek to make each service more incredible than the last? No. Should we schedule in a ‘tricked out’ service periodically? Say…maybe once a quarter, or something like that? Again, no. So we should seek normalcy in our services? The danger of normalcy is it often turns into drudgery.
My personal solution, my personal perspective is that you take each service on its own. Every church has a liturgy (or pattern) within their worship. This is always a great place to start, as long as you keep in mind the option that things could be changed around. Don’t force it, but rather let what the pastor is teaching guide you in your service prep. Make sure you are regularly spending time in prayer and in the Word, so you are tuned to the Spirit. That way, as you meditate on what the preacher will be sharing on Sunday you can be tuned into the need (or even opportunity) to mix things up, change things around. But never do it for the reason of creating that “exceptional service” but rather so that you can better shore up, emphasize and even apply what is being taught.
God moves differently every week. ‘Exceptional’ services are great, but in reality, they are merely different. What is exceptional is when God moves and touches someone’s heart. That can happen when you use an order of worship you’ve used a thousand times. The danger of exceptional worship services versus normal ones is that the focus shifts from what God is doing to what we are experiencing. Let us shepherd our hearts (and our people) so we do not seek an exceptional service, but rather we seek our exceptional God.
